I no longer get automatic updates. However, I am unable to stop them entirely. The tool bonskibon37 mentioned will allow you to prevent it from updating drivers.
What I did was set my connection as a metered connection. I can now go in and look at updates waiting and see what they are before I allow the download. I can't pick and choose. If I ever want to get an update again, I have to get them all unless I single out drivers with the tool that bonskibon37 mentioned. However, at least I don't have the updates using up all my bandwidth all day. I get to choose when and how often I take the updates all at one time. Nice since I have to pay for limited bandwidth.
Setting it to a metered connection will also stop store app updates, MS Office 365 updates, and Windows 10 updates. OneDrive will still synchronize, though, so be careful with that one. For me, I need OneDrive to stay synced, so it works out quite nice.
Hope this helps a few people out there. No, it doesn't return control, but it does give me what I was concerned about. I want the security updates, but I'd rather wait a few days to make sure they iron out any wrinkles that may be introduced before I download it. This method works.