Oh, I hear ya!! When I first got my Epic, I thought 'This is cool, I can root it, customize it however I like, d/l a bunch of apps, etc etc'. Now I'm sick of having to root it to install custom ROMs, get the latest OS, etc. Like you, I don't have the time, I'm at the point where I just want things to work. And I'll never, and I mean NEVER, have an iPhone (or Apple product, fullstop!). And the ROMs don't seem to be as stable as the carrier version. But I'm also sick of not getting updates for 6 months+ because of manufacturer and carrier bloatware.
I'm with you, if I get another Android, it'll definitely only be a Nexus, straight from Google. Only because there's no bloatware, and you're pretty much guaranteed to get updates straight away. After installing Windows 8 (it's great BTW, worth the money! Worth investing in a touchpad as well), and after reading about WP8 and it's integration with Win8, Xbox etc., I was set on getting a WP8 phone - until yesterday's Google announcement. The Nexus 4 has the latest hardware, looks great, is inexpensive (very much so for what you get!!), is pentaband, and is unlocked. The last two might end up being the clinchers for me. I'm from Australia and travel back there on a semi-regular basis, so being able to use it over there by simply dropping in a different sim card is a bonus. My sister and her family currently live in Singapore, so again its the same issue. My next phone HAS to be unlocked. Also, I don't make many calls/send text's, so it's probably not worth me paying my current $80/month to be on a contract. Hence the appeal of moving to T-mo's $30/month or Straight Talk's $45/month plan.
However, the appeal of going to WP8 is still there. I played with a L900 and it was smooth as silk, so I expect WP8 phones to be even better. Plus, there's the integration with Win 8. If I end up going that way I'd go all out and get an L920. However, having to buy it unlocked means having to shell out probably $700. That might end up being the deal breaker. The difference between that and the Nexus 4 is a year on the T-mo $30/month contract, which is a big deal. I'm planning to wait for reviews, I'll make a decision after that.
FWIW, I read today that
MetroTalk is a great Google Voice app. As far as music goes, Google Music is awesome. I buy my music wherever, usually on Amazon, but also via Google. I save everything to my computer in an MP3 folder. Google Music Manager then uploads it to Google servers, and you can stream it from anywhere. Great thing is that they let you store 20k SONGS, not 20 GB, for free. I think I currently have about 13k songs on there, which is about 75 gb. Not sure I'd ever get that free from MS. So, a good GMusic app is an essential for me.
Anyway, good luck with the HTC 8X - I'm sure you'll enjoy it!!
OP, apologies for the thread hijack.