I get that, but the problem only popped up when I updated to Tango, so something in the update is making my phone (and other's) show this...
There was a Verizon update that, among other things, made sure this "feature" is working correctly on WP. It was done intentionally.
Anyway, if you ask nicely I don't see why someone would be reluctant to turn it off. It's enabled by default on feature phones. I'm guessing most people probably don't even know that it's on.
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