I'm 5'11" and about 173 lbs. My cousin has a scale that takes your height, weight, age, and sex, then it calculates bone density, hydration level, body fat, BMI, BMR, muscle mass, and maybe some other things.
According to that scale, my BMR is about 1840 calories per day, but my Band usually measures over 2100 calories on days with no types of physical workout. Your total day expenditure calculator sounds like a high estimate for your size and weight, but I'm sort of new to all this fitness stuff.