Thanks to those who suggested to just visit the store where we placed the preorder and do not wait for an email or call. I never go either, but when I went to the Stanford store, I was able to buy mine with my receipt. They had told me yesterday that they would not have them until Friday. You all saved me a nasty trip on Black Friday!.
I asked if they got a lot of preorders, and he said yes, and indicated they did not get enough phones to cover all of their preoorders. Also, they gave me a nano sim and put it in their system. They then told me I could go to the ATT store to get it activated on my account. After waiting 20 or 30 minutes to be waited on at the ATT store the rep was very nice, but she told me that because they had already given me the sim, I could have just called 611, as long as I was the main person on the account, and they could have instantly activated it over the phone...just a tip for the rest of you. So far, I am loving the phone.