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MSFTisMIA If you don't know yourself you cannot tell a partner what your likes and dislikes are. It is one of the common themes I mention to the patients I work with...some are in some unhealthy relationships and there are times you want to whip some sense into them but you cannot.
It's not that you cannot get married at your age and be successful, but some aren't prepared to take that on...in the same way some aren't prepared to have kids. Doesn't stop them from doing that though...
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Well the thing is that they take their grandparents and older neighbours for examples in order to justify their actions. They think if their grandma got married in her 15 or 16 and still survived, had their parents, and still happiliy lives on, that their lives will be the same. But they're forgetting that those were different times, (or different mentality that people had, which ever expression you prefer), back then having a job was a normal thing, unlike now when it's become a privilege, they're forgetting that their grandpa was usually more than 6 years older than their grandmas and already a mature man unlike them.
What I want to say is, those guys that are getting maried now, were getting drunk and acting all idiotic and immature just few weeks ago, and now they're starting a family.
They don't need to justify their acions to me, I hate that, I don't explain myself to anyone either. But I can't help not to share my thoughts on the topic.
