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sahib lopez 1)She talks to me.because we have good convo's
2) see number 1
3) I think because we enjoy each other company
4) she has mentioned that she has a crush on a guy but im not sure about this point.
5) she ticks all my boxes.
Im just not sure at this point. :/
Your answers to 1 and 2 are not relevant. She could have good convos with anyone. It doesn't get to the crux of the point at all. If the only reason she's talking to you is for conversation then you are in the friend zone and you're wasting your time and energy on someone who's not interested. Bad idea if that's the case. Move on to someone else.
Answer to 3, it's not answering the question. It's one thing for you to enjoy her company but why is she interested in you? Nothing against you personally but why bother? Why spend all that time with you if she's not interested?
Answer to 4, if it's not you, get out of the situation and stop wasting your time. Ask her who it is, if she's elusive than it should be obvious to you that it's you silly!
Answer to 5, if that's the case why are you wasting time??? Dragging your feet is a sure fire way to mess things up.
Here's the thing. If she's in your thoughts, if you want to be with her, than do something about it. If she's interested in you, which to us seems obvious, then it's a done deal. If for whatever reason she's not interested in you that way, move along. We all hate rejection but there's no point wasting your time on someone who isn't going to reciprocate. Life's too short for that nonsense.
Stop being afraid and man up.