re: WC 100K Post Challenge - You Ready?!
nono you got me all wrong . I should of been clear about. im not saying it to every girl or male who gets sexually assaulted is their fault becuase its not their fault but when a person warns them not to go back to that guy or girl and says well he or she will change but doesn't and that happens then its on then because they chose to go back to that situation or when a person choses to go into prostitution for some reason and ignores the warnings and gets sexually assaulted, then its on them again. I know any type of assault is bad
Gotta clean that up again too.
If a woman chooses to go into commercial sex work (many are forced into it, by the way) the "customer" still doesn't have the right to assault her.
Some women in DV situations may choose to stay with a partner because he is so violate that leaving would cause more harm on more people. There is a whole host of literature out there on this sort of stuff. To the point where some women may use foster,care as a way to protect their kids from the abuser by letting the State the kids because splitting up the family that way is safer than the abuser solely having access to the children.
The stuff you speak of has a lot more grey areas to it than you can possibly imagine. Gotta be sharp on that knowledge because while I can see where you're coming from, if someone cursed you out for what you just said as being just as bad or somewhat worse than what that guy said, I wouldn't blame them for doing that.
Because both perspectives aren't empowering to the victim.