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I think this is an issue in every human services (teacher and otherwise) occupation. Here in the UK the counseling and in my wife's case, career services, the industry is unregulated so pretty much anyone can become a counselor or careers adviser. No training required. I believe the US is/was like this as well?
I think in any occupation you have the possibility of becoming romantically involved with someone you see on a daily basis. The issue with teachers is that these individuals are minors as they're the ones you see most. We as a society shun it (not too long ago people got married at 13/14) as is right to do so. It's a complex situation and the easiest way to get around it is for constant emphasis on it being wrong. Put in the same systems as counselors have as many students tend to confide in their teachers. Have supervisors, have regular meetings and most importantly have yearly ethics training. At least if these things are put in place the only excuse left is on the teacher alone, though it's usually the teacher who gets nailed anyway.
I also agree that when it's a woman teacher there's sort of a bravado of the males. Nothing new here. As I mentioned earlier, we live in a society where if you lack male genitals you typically are treated differently.
Training has gone to ****s in many lines of work these days, especially some educational and human service areas. One of things that was told to me that professional boundaries is absolutely essential to maintain in order to do any type of human service job. I work with many vulnerable patients daily, most are female, some are highly attractive and quite used to getting male attention in a very sexualized manner. Come summer we see patients dress all sorts of ways in clinic and you cannot even bat an eye at what you see. I've seen coworkers cross the line and get hammered for it. Fortunately, no patient has tried to flirt with me in an overt way so far. I make it clear it is about the service they need, not me. It happens to my female coworkers all the time and they shut that stuff down very quickly.
I think this is an issue in every human services (teacher and otherwise) occupation. Here in the UK the counseling and in my wife's case, career services, the industry is unregulated so pretty much anyone can become a counselor or careers adviser. No training required. I believe the US is/was like this as well?
Some of the teachers I see in these articles are in their early stages of their career. Some of the veterans get caught by it too. While I agree that it is about ethics and training, it has to be addressed in such a way that teachers and human service professionals are reminded that self care is a necessary part of the work.
What bothers me most about these articles is the gender piece. If it a woman teacher taking advantage of a (in most cases male) student, the student is lauded for his prowess. Many of these incidents start before consensual age for sex because it is done systematically and over time.
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I think in any occupation you have the possibility of becoming romantically involved with someone you see on a daily basis. The issue with teachers is that these individuals are minors as they're the ones you see most. We as a society shun it (not too long ago people got married at 13/14) as is right to do so. It's a complex situation and the easiest way to get around it is for constant emphasis on it being wrong. Put in the same systems as counselors have as many students tend to confide in their teachers. Have supervisors, have regular meetings and most importantly have yearly ethics training. At least if these things are put in place the only excuse left is on the teacher alone, though it's usually the teacher who gets nailed anyway.
I also agree that when it's a woman teacher there's sort of a bravado of the males. Nothing new here. As I mentioned earlier, we live in a society where if you lack male genitals you typically are treated differently.