libra89
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WC 150K Post Challenge - You Ready?!
I have a mini rant but I don't know if I have enough time to type it.
At the salon answering my stylist's questions about the wedding and the other stylist is there. She's Ghanaian and she's saying that I need to think about marriage before my eggs dry up by me waiting too long.
She keeps going on and on about being able to have kids. It gets to the point where I'm sick of hearing about kids I don't plan to have so I say that I never wanted them.
She's shocked and says that maybe I should find a White man to marry because no African man would not want to not have kids. She also asked me if my dad knows about me feeling this way and I say no, he'll be informed once I'm married.
Then she says I should at least have one. Just one. Still shocked because she never met an African woman who doesn't want kids.
For real?!
Like she's saying that it comes natural. Guess what, that's never been the case for me ever. Seriously?!
I have a mini rant but I don't know if I have enough time to type it.
At the salon answering my stylist's questions about the wedding and the other stylist is there. She's Ghanaian and she's saying that I need to think about marriage before my eggs dry up by me waiting too long.
She keeps going on and on about being able to have kids. It gets to the point where I'm sick of hearing about kids I don't plan to have so I say that I never wanted them.
She's shocked and says that maybe I should find a White man to marry because no African man would not want to not have kids. She also asked me if my dad knows about me feeling this way and I say no, he'll be informed once I'm married.
Then she says I should at least have one. Just one. Still shocked because she never met an African woman who doesn't want kids.
For real?!
Like she's saying that it comes natural. Guess what, that's never been the case for me ever. Seriously?!