Re: WC 150K Post Challenge - You Ready?!
(This is probably going to be a bit of a word vomit. You're welcome to read and/or reply if you'll like.)
Had an interesting conversation the other day with my friend, his GF, and mutual friends that are a couple about why don't I want to consider dating our mutual friend. They were being persistent about a real reason why, and kind of refused to accept my reasons before I got to the point about having some things that are nonnegotiable.
I have mentioned it before but the kid thing is what got them to let it rest, since that is understandable. (My friend, the one with the mentioned gf "forgot" that I feel the way I do about the kid thing.) Talking to my sister about it (the conversation), she said that they probably want to see me even happier so that is why they were being that way.
I guess but sometimes you don't want certain things at certain times. I'm starting this journey as a part time grad student, along with a full time job. I'll like to adjust and see how this goes first for me, just by myself. When you have to consider another person, it becomes a challenge (which means even less time). I don't think I would be opposed if it was to happen (I mean me meeting someone I might be interested in) while I'm going through this process but not in the first semester or idealistically the first year.