Okay, so after spending almost an hour to update early this morning, I have been trying to fix this darn mms/picture downloading and sending mess. I went from site to site, tried changed apn, restarted it a ton of times and FINALLY, my fiance says "did you remove the battery and reinsert it?". I figured "what the hell", I removed the battery, put it back in and restarted it. It took a few minutes (every time I clicked the message button, it would appear to load but kick me out), anyway, on the third try it went into the messages and I was able to download a media file. I then sent myself a picture and it went through and came back perfectly.
So, take your batteries out and start over folks! Soon as I can, I'm switching back over to android, who needs more windows drama, my laptop gives me enough during it's updates.
Peace