Got my phone on 11/9 and I'm STILL waiting for my charging plate. AT&T store said they would phone me when they got them in. I got tired of waiting,.....
I did the same. They called me the day after Thanksgiving and said that they were not getting any in the store anytime soon and were just going to order one for me. By 11-30 I had not seen an email for the order and went into my local store. They showed no record of the order and went ahead and placed on order then. That was Friday - I received the charger on Tuesday.
I am confused how a lot of people are getting them and they had them ordered recently and some of us who got it at launch are still waiting.