That kind of mess sounds like user error, not the OS. Android has bugs. Every OS has bugs. That's the nature of software. But I've never had a problem with force closes, radios, reboots, or any of the other strawmen you've been erecting.
Yep, nerd hobbyists like 50% of the American smartphone market.
Ah yes. The classic Android apologist answer to everything. User error.
I used the phone as it was designed, nothing unusual at all. It was unreliable. It was not my imagination that the camera app crashed constantly. It was not my fault either. It was not my imagination that it took almost a year for a Netflix app that was compatible with my Honeycomb tablet shipped. It was not user error.
My Android loving friends all say the same thing. User error. Or "you bought the wrong phone" or "wait until ICS".
The only "user error" that occurred was my purchase of an Android product.
The 50% of the smartphone market using Android has EVERYTHING to do with the fact that you walk into any phone store and you've got 50 Androids in your face and 2 iPhones in a corner. You have to go out of your way and make extraordinary effort in order NOT to buy an Android. I'm convinced out of that 50% who buy Android maybe 3-4% are nerd hobbyists who love it. The rest are innocent bystanders who got Android for all the wrong reasons or for no reason at all and wind up with a phone they can tolerate (at best) or hate (at worst)
It could very well be that if I had a better phone, a newer version of the OS, or I flashed the right ROM or rooted the phone I would have had a better experience. I don't doubt that. My point is simply that I shouldn't HAVE to do that and I have no interest in a device that requires that for good performance.
Different strokes for different folks though. I completely understand why some people love Android. It is certainly much more flexible and capable than WP7.
For me though, my experiences have deeply ingrained a sense of distrust in the integrity of the whole platform. Unreliability aside, even if my Android devices were reliable, I still hate the way developers are sloppy with their apps, there's virtually no consistency in the UI design, I had 25 different apps that looked like they were designed for 25 different OS's. The layout, the buttons, the way they look, the way they behaved. No consistency. Maybe a small point for some people, but I found it irritating.
If the chaos and "freedom" of Android is for you, I say more power to you.
For me, it will be a cold day in **** before I ever buy or use any Android device of any kind. Under further scrutiny I now notice Android isn't the only thing Google makes that sucks. Google Docs sucks as well, I realized that the minute I used it and trying Microsoft's free Office Web Apps made Google Apps look like worthless crap.
I'm anti-Google for the most part. Because of their dishonest narrative about being the "good" company who is all about FREEDOM and how free they are going to make you for free. It's all bull****. Google is more sinister than Microsoft has ever been in their wildest dreams. They deal and hustle in people's information and sell your info to people who want to advertise to you. That makes them unworthy of trust. Add to that the fact that they turn out **** software that doesn't work well and doesn't look good.
Lots of reasons not to like Google or anything they have a hand in.