People screaming about DRM and online checks every 24 hours funny. PC gamers have been in this realm (as I mentioned in another post) for years. BFD. If M$ can keep up or stay close to Sony as far as sales you will see more exclusives on XB1 because developers/publishers are going to be more lucrative on the console that keeps more strict tabs on their licenses.
My number one concern with the new consoles were used games, because that's 90% of what I play. But with M$ stating you can still sell and buy used games via participating retailers, AND trade used games over BXL, AND trade with friends as long as they're on your friends list, you're ok. Problem solved for me. The extra $100 for the console will be worth it considering it will be spread over the life cycle of the console (6-8 years or more).
People are just misinformed because M$ has done a typical terrible job with customer relation communication. Last night I corrected my brother-in-law and his son who said the PS4 will play their PS3 games. Ummmm, no, and I showed him sources. And then he proceeded to say you can't play used games on the new xbox. Ummmmm, no, and I showed him sources.
Yes, people tolerate Steam, but that's because it's VERY rare that you have to pay $60 for a game after a couple of months. There is usually a sale shortly after launch. For example, I got
Skyrim used on my 360 for $55. Not too long after that, it went on-sale on Steam, to coincide with the release of the game's PC Creation Kit. It was on-sale for $30 or $40, and it was such a good deal that I almost bought the game a second time, so I could experience player-made content on PC. I ended up deciding against it, but my point is that Steam offers great deals 100% of the time, which is why it's tolerated.
Microsoft MIGHT take the same steps on the new Xbox, we will see. However, I won't give them credit for emulating Steam until I see them doing it. But also note that the ability to "trade with friends as long as they're on your friends list," is limited to a single transaction. The person must be on your friends list for 30 days to borrow the game, and it can only be borrowed once. Now, this 10-person family concept sounds like it could be a sharing free-for-all, and it will be a great feature, if it happens.
I agree with you, though. People (myself included) are upset because Microsoft won't give them a reason not to be. They're LETTING the media throw gas on the fire, and they won't even grab an extinguisher. It's hard to not voice displeasure with their actions when they aren't even trying to defend them (and "buy a 360 if you don't like it, this is the future," isn't a legitimate response). If they want to earn goodwill and not get attacked by those on the Internet, point out things like the 10-person "family" that allows unchecked sharing of games, to significantly lower software costs for consumers.
It's hard to give Microsoft any benefit of the doubt when they elected to point out all of the major negatives (the check-in, the cost, and the DRM), but not highlight the good stuff (like this sharing idea) with so many colors of highlighter markers that it makes 7 rainbows. They're allowing themselves to be attacked, when they should be taking the route that they are with windows Phone ads now--show off the benefits and features you can't get anywhere else.