Alright, enahs555, I finally have something in the way of an answer from Samsung support, and if you can validate it for me, all the better. Apparently the timing of the NoDo update to Samsung Focus phones is based on build version. NoDo was made available 4/19 to build version REV 1.3 (found near the IMEI number under your battery). My build version, unfortunately, is REV 1.4 - the update to which will be pushed out at a later date TBD.
When you get back to your phone, let me know if you're in the same boat, and if so, we know we're playing the waiting game still, and it's not a phone / software SNAFU outside of MS and Samsung yanking us around.