MSFTisMIA
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re: WPC 50K Post Challenge - You Ready?!
@kem, I'll clear up last night's flap this way. I'm cool with you. I have no problem with people stating their opinions. I ask that for me, don't use any qualifiers like "Don't take this the wrong way". It has been proven ad nauseum that when you use qualifiers, you get the person to look at the situation in the exact way you don't want them to. I don't care how you want to debate that point, but you won't win, as that's a stone cold fact. So simply put, you did drop an insult last night, making everything your said after that qualifier in your initial post an insult. I know you didn't mean it, but when I read it I was like: "why put that qualifier in"? Other people here in the thread have said stronger stuff and not has this kind of flap to it.
You got called out on it twice, and as long as with me you just say your opinions without qualifiers, it is a done deal for me.
@kem, I'll clear up last night's flap this way. I'm cool with you. I have no problem with people stating their opinions. I ask that for me, don't use any qualifiers like "Don't take this the wrong way". It has been proven ad nauseum that when you use qualifiers, you get the person to look at the situation in the exact way you don't want them to. I don't care how you want to debate that point, but you won't win, as that's a stone cold fact. So simply put, you did drop an insult last night, making everything your said after that qualifier in your initial post an insult. I know you didn't mean it, but when I read it I was like: "why put that qualifier in"? Other people here in the thread have said stronger stuff and not has this kind of flap to it.
You got called out on it twice, and as long as with me you just say your opinions without qualifiers, it is a done deal for me.