jonboy... sorry you are frustrated and that it hasn't been a smooth transition for you, but these features or issues you had were there from day 1 of your purchase and could have easily returned it within 30 days, unlike the carriers that have 14 days.
another thing, i have an atrix (and soon an inspire 4G) and both do not have the latest OS update. we're being told "later this year" for atrix users.
you stated unfinished and rushed, but where should they have started? the iPhone started without copy & paste, without mms and without APPS! i could go on and on with what the iPhone didn't start with, but i do not have that much time. lol. Android? they had apps, but they were some of the ugliest apps you ever saw compared to the iPhone apps. they are only just started to match or better some iPhone apps. And IMHO, most apps (if not all) that all 3 have (FB, IMDb, ESPN ScoreCenter) are much better on wp7 than the other two. this doesn't make any better or worse than the other, but it shows that no OS came out the box with what they have/are currently.
damned if they do, damned if they don't because you say they "rushed" the OS out, but on the other hand, you're unhappy because you don't have NoDo. is that fair? now if your response is... "they should have waited until NoDo came out", why not wait until mango or wp8... where would it end? heck, why did Apple push the iPhone out, they should have waited 4 years for 4.3.2 to be released. Android should have waited until 2.3.4 to be released. see what i did? M$, like everyone else had to start somewhere.