They're going. I post in Japanese here from time to time. It is tough: I work full time, I commute 3-4hours roundtrip daily (2hrs when I stay at the GF's), I'm a full time student, and I work for free (the internship) 2 days a week.
Sensei is understanding and is an amazing Sensei and very good classical pianist (she teaches that too), but deep down I know she feels I should be a bit further along - more fluid an more confident.
I just don't use it enough, which is the problem. Japanese people aren't the easiest to find in the city. I'd want a language partner...males I don't mind because at least they're a little more likely to learn. I'd rather a female because the ones I've been cool with have really appreciated the cultural exchange more. Problem is, there are a fair amount of guys here who try to parlay that into a sexual liaison type thing. It makes that stigma harder for regular joes like me...and when you look like me and are speaking Japanese, it takes some Japanese folks a second or two to make the adjustment.
Penned on a Xperia Z3