It's always so quiet on this thread in the morning for me. Sigh.
Believe me that I never would have thought I'd be living here.Chatterboxes need sleep too. Nobody told you to be living in England and all that...(lol)...
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Believe me that I never would have thought I'd be living here.
Still, it was nice when we had more from the EU...
Chatterboxes need sleep too. Nobody told you to be living in England and all that...(lol)...
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Yup, Chregu and BigPaddy made this thread really enjoyable to read. I know Muessig pops in from time to time, but when those three were posting regular the thread was interesting.
I never thought I'd live in NJ either. It was a great reminder last year when one of my close friends from back home - we've know each other since 1994 - came to visit. He's seen where I grew up and he was pretty pleased with my space.
Just goes to show you never know where life will take you...
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I'm also doing the shorter commute from the GF's to work for this month as I recover. It's mostly underground for about 45 minutes. Since she lives at a heavy transfer point, I stay off my phone.
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Working night shift today... which I'm not particularly fond of...
I could use an extra day before friday, have to learn history in 2 days...Two more days and Friday! I could use the extra hours of sleep.
I haven't really kept in touch with anyone I grew up with. Nor with school friends, there's a couple on Facebook but I very rarely interact with them, I rarely say anything on Facebook these days. Old work colleagues is the same.
I've always been the one to have to go our out of their way to stay in touch so I've pretty much just don't bother and well, there you go. I guess they weren't really friends even though I knew them for years on end. Strange isn't it?
My life experience is beyond anything I could have imagined 12 years ago. It's so different than where I was. In less than a year I went from living in Canada to living in Australia and now to the UK for the last 5 years. Since then, the world has been open to me.Still lots more to experience.
Two more days and Friday! I could use the extra hours of sleep.
I've learned a long time ago that not everyone you meet in life you'll get to take with along your life's journey...so I appreciate everyone and try to treat them as well as possible. Those few who will stick around through the changes often require a commitment to maintaining the friendship. My friend who came to visit last year and I had a long conversation about this year's ago.
Plus, you'll learn over time who will really stick around when **** hits the fan, and who will buckle under pressure...
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Unfortunately what's happened to me is that people just find it too 'difficult' to keep in touch. Even though I'm fairly easily reached and typically respond quickly.
My own family, brother and sister, who's children are all grown up now, are probably coming home from work and sitting in front of the TV all night. Can't be bothered to message me, email me or anything else. It's always too hard for them I guess. Time zones are a problem? Don't know.
Same goes for the friends. People just have too much going on in their lives (they don't but that's the excuse) so I ended up being the one to keep things going typically so I stopped. I just can't be bothered with that any more now. I need two way streets otherwise I'm just being used.
So in general I have acquaintances now. Nothing else. My time as a contractor in Australia left me in a situation where that's all I had. I had some good one but they never became true friends.
I've found in the UK it's a bit difficult to get friends. Not entirely sure why that is. There's some barrier there of some sort.
My schedule and commute makes it hectic on my end also to make new contacts and maintain some of my current ones these days. Life's like that, filled with ebbs and flows.
Still, I try to maximize the ones I have. Some want to stick around, some don't. People can be fickle and that fickle nature makes life frustratingly interesting.
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