Laura Knotek
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- Mar 31, 2012
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Re: WC 150K Post Challenge - You Ready?!
I agree with you. I've had a close male friend for almost 30 years. He is like a brother to me. We have talked and gone to concerts, movies and coffeehouses on a regular basis and even given each other advice on each others' relationships. We've never been interested in dating each other, but our friendship has remained very close all these years.I've always liked the idea of having a close friend from the opposite gender. When do right, it's very healthy. My work wife fits that bill for me.
The problem is that it takes a certain level of maturity to handle that. Some people want friends with a sexual component to their setup but don't want for ask for that. Some people just want simple friends but because people are so used to the underhanded way of getting friends with a sexual component are very wary of it.
When people just cannot be grown up enough to ask for what they want and deal with the consequences of their request...