I hear that. The way I see it can be that this is due to those who lead this way. And by example folks follow. I have seen dudes slightly younger than me treat life as if it is suppose to hand them everything, because that is how they grew up, or how they were lead. I feel sorry for those even in the last decade who chose to raise their children by putting them in front of a cell phone or tablet as the babysitter. Yes, there is a complacency about it, but there is a whole lot of lack of wisdom in how people do things nowadays. If comes across as wisdom then you have to be careful that it is not disguised as selfishness, or greed.