I just wanna know how it never happenes to some people, what's the deal with that?
Boris, I'll tell you what my usage is, maybe that will help you in your quest. I don't want to debate or argue with you, though.
First off, I don't install every app under the sun. I keep my phone pretty svelte; I want it to be the most reliable device I own. I have a laptop and an RT for when I want to go app crazy. I also limit the number of background tasks and Live Tiles I have running; I want my phone to show me the updates that I *need* on a day-to-day basis. Everything else can wait until I open the app or account. I don't install games on my phone, and it is unlocked as a developer phone as I'm a developer and I'm starting to write WP8 apps. I'm a heavy SMS, email, and OneNote user, with frequent forays into the Office hub for SharePoint needs.
I've uninstalled every AT&T and Nokia app that came on the phone. I've installed 6tag, MapQuest, Nextgen Reader, and a couple of apps I'm working on. I have two email accounts syncing "as items arrive" (work Exchange 2010 and Outlook.com), including contacts and calendars. I also have my Facebook account integrated into the People hub, although I do not use Facebook chat.
WiFi is pretty much always on. Bluetooth is not, unless I need it (for my car or whatever). Location and NFC are both off. 6tag, MapQuest, and Nextgen Reader background tasks are all off, which means their Live Tiles are also off. Feedback is off, as is Phone Update (I manually check once a week for updates).
Phone, Messaging, Exchange, Outlook.com, Calendar, People, Photos, and Marketplace are the only LiveTiles I have going, and most of those are simple "new item" counts. As I said above, everything else is information I don't need pushed to me; I'll get it when I'm ready to sit down and read Facebook updates or news articles or whatever.
Finally, I do have an Xbox Music Pass and I've matched a bunch of my music to the Xbox Cloud. I don't listen frequently on my phone, though, because I'm always at my laptop, work desktop (an iMac running Windows 8) or my Surface RT. I do listen occasionally in my car over Bluetooth, but I usually have it plugged in as well. So, that may be a wash.
I'm sure many people are going to read this and think I'm crippling my phone, but... this is the usage which works for me, and so this is the way I have it setup. I've not had any battery issues because I don't want every bit of information pushed to me all day every day. As I sit here right now it's 6:55 PM, my phone has been unplugged since 5:30 AM, I've been using the phone all day (email and SMS mostly today, with a few 6tag and Nextgen Reader runs), and I'm at 65% battery remaining.